Domestic violence (or intimate partner violence) is a pervasive issue affecting countless families across the United States, including here in Nebraska. While the immediate consequences of domestic violence on adult victims are well-documented, it's essential to shed light on the often-overlooked victims: the children.
Domestic violence is a pattern of abusive behavior one partner uses to gain power and control over another in an intimate relationship. In Nebraska, domestic violence can take various forms, including physical abuse, emotional abuse, sexual abuse, financial abuse, and more. The impact of intimate partner violence on children living in these environments can be devastating and long-lasting.
Effects on Children
Emotional Trauma: Children exposed to domestic violence often suffer from emotional trauma, including anxiety, depression, and post-traumatic stress disorder. Witnessing violence between parents can lead to feelings of fear, guilt, and helplessness.
Behavioral Problems: Children from abusive households are more likely to exhibit behavioral problems such as aggression, withdrawal, and difficulties in school. These issues can persist into adulthood.
Interpersonal Relationships: Growing up in a violent environment can influence a child's future relationships. They may struggle with trust, intimacy, and communication, potentially leading to abusive patterns in their own relationships.
Physical Health: The stress and anxiety caused by intimate partner violence can take a toll on a child's physical health. They may experience headaches, stomachaches, and other stress-related ailments.
Breaking the Cycle: Sadly, children who witness domestic violence are at a higher risk of becoming either victims or perpetrators of violence in their future relationships. Breaking this cycle is essential for their well-being and future happiness.
It's important to note that not all children exposed to intimate partner violence are affected equally or in the same ways. Also, each child and their behaviors should be considered in the context of their lives and family's functioning, as these symptoms can be associated with other stressors or traumas.
Resources for Survivors
If you or someone you know is experiencing domestic violence in Nebraska, numerous resources are available to provide support, guidance, and protection:
Domestic Violence Hotline: Call the National Domestic Violence Hotline 24/7 hotline at 800-799-SAFE (7233) for immediate assistance and guidance.
Local Shelters: Several shelters and safe houses in Nebraska provide emergency housing, counseling, and support for survivors and their children. The Friendship Home of Lincoln can be contacted at 402-437-9302, and the Women's Center for Advancement (WCA) in Omaha can be reached 24/7 at 402-345-7273.
Therapy and Counseling: Therapy can help survivors and their children cope with the emotional and psychological trauma of intimate partner violence. Look for therapists experienced in trauma and abuse issues.
Support Groups: Joining a support group for survivors of domestic violence can provide a sense of community and understanding, helping survivors heal.
Legal Assistance: Seek legal help from us at McGill Law. We can help you obtain protective orders and navigate the legal process. Call us today at 402-548-5418.
You are not alone.
Domestic violence in Nebraska is a serious issue with far-reaching consequences, especially for the children caught in the crossfire. It's imperative that we raise awareness about the impact of domestic violence on children and provide survivors with the necessary resources and support to break free from abusive relationships. If you or someone you know is experiencing domestic violence, remember that help is available, and there is hope for a brighter future free from violence and fear.